hey there, 27m. i’ve been in a committed and happy relationship for almost a decade, and they are only a few years younger than i. the sex we have is great, but few and far between. my hypersexuality struck at a young age and its basically run my life and my sexual history on the internet is long, and immoral. recently, ive become a proshipper, lolisho, and pxdo in name only. the past few weeks have been heavy on my head trying to wonder how i balance these two lives. my partner would kill me for how i feel, and our life is so entwined and i love them so much. they are my soulmate. i’m so confused. thanks for giving a space to allow me to share.

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Well there’s no immorality in anything you’ve mentioned, but it does sound like you don’t feel like your partner could love all of you. Always prioritize your safety and way of life but consider why you feel that way. Ever since coming out to my wife I’ve gotten more critical of the idea that someone can’t be accepted fully or does not feel like they could be by their soulmate

Also, this isnt a judgement. It took me 8 months of exploration and deep introspection as well as making close friends within the community to figure myself out and actually talk to my wife. Take the time you need to come to terms with yourself so you can know whats right for you